In A Committed Relationship? Prove It With These 7 Great Tips
1) Put Away The Threat Of Leaving
It should probably be obvious that threatening to walk out is not the way to convince your partner that you’re committed. It is obvious when you consider it rationally and hypothetically. Things can get a lot different in the heat of an argument, though. Resist the temptation to play the “I would have it better if I just walked out the door” card when you’re fighting. Although everyone has thoughts like this from time to time, verbalizing them – or even implying them – will have a major negative effect on your partner’s opinion of how committed you are.Family and relationships are really important for a happy life.
2) Plan For The Long Term
Don’t be afraid to start looking months or years into the future once you’re in a committed relationship. Nothing speaks to your long-term dedication like laying the groundwork for shared vacations, moving in together, or even planning out a family. You don’t necessarily have to be deadly serious about this process if it might make your partner uncomfortable, but talking about the future is a great reminder that you see a shared one in front of you.
3) Remember To Reach Out
Physical intimacy is important in any relationship, but remember that this goes beyond sexuality. Make it a point to touch your partner every day. Give them a kiss or a hug when they’re not expecting it to remind them that they’re special – and so are you! Keeping your relationship intimate will remind both of you how important it is.
4) Find Out What Your Partner Appreciates
When you’re planning romantic touches to share with your partner, try to set aside your own tastes and tap into his or hers. What sort of shared activities, favors, or treats do they really appreciate? Doing something for your partner or planning a special moment can be a terrific way to show how much you care. It will be appreciated a lot more when it reflects your understanding of your partner’s enthusiasms!
5) Bring Up The Best Of The Past
The longer your relationship goes on, the more history you end up building with your partner. Tap into that shared story by planning future events around special moments from your past. Revisit that boardwalk where you kissed for the first time. Stop in at the restaurant where you had your first date to see if the coffee’s still terrible. Linking your present to your past will get your partner thinking about your future.
6) Express Your Creativity
Indulge your creative talents and put together something handmade for your partner. Nothing says “I love you” like a tangible reminder of the fact that you’ve devoted your time and effort to pleasing them. Don’t worry about making something creative if your not the “arts and crafts” type. There are still things you can do – like creating a new playlist for your partner, for instance – to show that you’re thinking about them.
7) Give Meaningful Gifts
Gift-giving is always a challenge, especially during the uncertain early days of a relationship. As your commitment deepens, though, you should get a much better feel for the things your partner enjoys. Call on all the things you’ve learned about them – big and small – when it’s time to pick out gifts. Choose things that reflect what you know and appreciate about him or her. A promise ring can be a lovely gift. This demonstrates both that you’re paying attention and that you want to nurture your partner in the future.
Amila Gamage Wickramarachchi is the founder of this blog which she shares her parenting and lifestyle experiences.She is a Contracts Engineer by profession and recently launched her own Engineering consultancy service Sihela Consultants.(www.sihelaconsultants.com)